For guys only: read this and you will find yourselves nodding furiously, unless if you are Mr.Ang aka Mr.Popular. (Ang being the Hokkien term for popular, not your surname.)
http://jason914.blogspot.com/2009/06/god-tell-me-to-do-same.html
Indeed Jason. I feel you buddy.
Let me first tell you how I think. First of all, I think it rude to leave people hanging around waiting for your answer. They SMS-ed you for an answer and it is normal to get frustrated when the reply is late. Or, it did not come at all. Grr~
The spice added to this frustration is as pointed out by Mr. Jason:
'At the same time, they can sms, talking about nonsense with their other friends.'
How true! Funny how things are unfair aren't they? One wonders whether one is still a friend after receiving such a treatment. The question mark is destroyed after a guy listened to the reasons offered by those Flowers:
'Busy... Lazy... Don't feel like sms-ing...' and whatnot.
Who said anything about sms-ing? It's a question that's waiting for your answer dudedess. It is one thing to turn down the offer of a conversation; it is quite another to simply ignore a question put forward.
Say if there was an emergency and the SMS was never delivered out. Being a sensible person, an explanation should be offered to that person. Leaving question marks that eventually turn into 'grrr... :@' is a bad thing in any relationships.
It's not easy to be nice nowadays, be it guys or girls. There are morons and psychopaths running outside, yes. But surely manners are a basic part of a civilisation?
2 comments:
Hmm, I'd agree about replying as promptly as possible,waiting around for an answer is irritatingly painful, but anyone expecting an almost *instant* reply each time is being a little ridiculous ><
It depends on the gravity of the situation,really. If it's really important, I think it's worth making a phone call instead,saves the trouble.
khiahsu: jz a rant to echo jason's :P
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